Do you know
which is the scariest place in this world ? Any guesses ?
One of the scariest
place on this planet is a hospital ! This is true when you yourself become a
patient – and is even more valid when your loved one is lying there , struggling
to get well. Being ill robs you of your ability to judge rationally and take
appropriate decisions. A hospital environment is a different world in itself -
you enter into it believing , hoping and praying that your health problem will
be solved and all will be well. You assume that doctors are angels working hard
to protect you and save your lives and that they know everything which is
needed to safe guard you.
But once
you find yourself lying in a hospital bed , you realize that being in a hospital
is like being trapped in a world where you do not know the language, the
inhabitants , and the culture ! You start to panic. Your doctor might speak in
a language which you cannot understand ( because he uses medical jargon), and subject
you to many tests and therapies (sometimes very painful ones) . When you are
not sure what is being done and why, you start wondering whether the tests are
really necessary or if it is just a way of taking away your hard earned money.
Most doctors start treating you like a broken object which needs to be repaired
and forget that you are a human being with emotions. This happens because they
are too busy to talk to you and clear your doubts and fears, while some are
burnt out , and don't really care for your emotional well-being. As a result
you might end up becoming emotionally exhausted and your mental well-being will
be at stake every passing day.
You do not
know whom to ask for help to clear your doubts and concerns and how to get the
best out of the many splendid resources that are available in the hospital.
This is very true in case of couples who undergo IVF treatment too. You go to
the clinic with the innocent expectation that you will come back with a baby .
You soon end up frustrated because:
you don't understand what your doctor
is telling you;
why you are being charged so much and for what procedures;
why you are being subjected to numerous tests ;
what your doctor is looking for; and
why your embryos refuse to implant even if they look super good .
Sometimes you start wondering if you are receiving the best treatment possible or if you are just being taken for a ride ! Difficult situation, isn't it ?
why you are being charged so much and for what procedures;
why you are being subjected to numerous tests ;
what your doctor is looking for; and
why your embryos refuse to implant even if they look super good .
Sometimes you start wondering if you are receiving the best treatment possible or if you are just being taken for a ride ! Difficult situation, isn't it ?
The bitter
truth is medicine has become a big business. Many doctors are more worried
about their bank balance than their patients’ well-being. Many corporate
hospitals operate with their profit in mind , rather than their patient's
safety and comfort. In such a situation how will you feel when you find a
saviour :
who is knowledgeable enough to
communicate with your doctor and at the same time explain to you in simple
terms what your doctor is thinking ;
who can protect your rights as a patient;
who can question your doctor about why he is ordering particular tests and therapies and their validity ;
who can understand what you are going through emotionally , and is empathetic enough to infuse you with realistic hopes;
who can help you make sense of hospital bills and question the hospital administration if there is any discrepancy ;
who can protect your rights as a patient;
who can question your doctor about why he is ordering particular tests and therapies and their validity ;
who can understand what you are going through emotionally , and is empathetic enough to infuse you with realistic hopes;
who can help you make sense of hospital bills and question the hospital administration if there is any discrepancy ;
who can help you fill medical forms
for claiming reimbursement from health insurance policy;
who can keep a constant vigil on your treatment so that you are safe - guarded from potential unintentional medical errors which may even endanger your life;
who can help you access all the available resources in the hospital in times of crisis –
who can keep a constant vigil on your treatment so that you are safe - guarded from potential unintentional medical errors which may even endanger your life;
who can help you access all the available resources in the hospital in times of crisis –
in short, a person who
is your teacher, friend, philosopher, guide and savior during your
difficult times in the hospital !
Are you
wondering whether such a person exists ? Yes they do, and in the field of
medicine they are called patient advocates. A patient advocate is a person who
is your confidant, who speaks for you, who works in your best interests, who
helps you to navigate through the complex health care system and educates you
about your medical problem when your health is in jeopardy.
In the
past, when the field of medicine wasn’t this complex , it was easier for a
knowledgeable family member to take up the role of being a patient advocate.
But today , when so many new discoveries are being made in the field of
medicine, there are a mind-boggling number of different treatment options
available to treat a particular condition. Even doctors are perplexed by medical
complexity and not every doctor keeps himself updated about the advances in
their particular field. This is why deciding which treatment option is best for
you is not an easy task. Such a complex situation with multiple variables, combined
with a doctor who does his job mechanically (by mindlessly applying the same
treatment approach to all his patients , irrespective of their individual
needs) can prevent you from getting the best treatment possible.
However, if
you have a patient advocate by your side , who understands you as a person and
cares for you; who is willing to thoroughly research your medical problem and
treatment options; and who is happy to spend the time and energy to teach you,
so you can jointly decide what kind of treatment will benefit you the most, you
will start to feel confident and well-cared for during your difficult times in
hospital !
A patient
advocate can be your relative, a friend, a patient who has been through what
you are going through now (and hence has gained immense knowledge through
experience ) or someone who does it as a profession or even an organization
which gives voice to the patients. A good patient advocate must be
knowledgeable, must have good communication skills (because he acts as a bridge
between you and your health care team), must be patient and empathetic enough; and who is available for you around the clock.
Above all a good patient advocate will be a good teacher as well as a student –
someone who is skilled enough to help you understand your health problem , and
one who is willing to educate himself and constantly update himself in the
field he is working.
Patient
advocacy is not a new field as far as western world is concerned. But in India
the concept of patient advocacy is still new and growing . I am sure sooner or
later patients and hospitals in India will encourage the importance of patient
advocacy .
Through this
blog , I work as a patient advocate ; and it gives me immense satisfaction that
I am doing my best to help people who are in a similar situation as I am. So
please do write to me if you need help in understanding your IVF treatment. I
will be happy to help educate you (as far as my knowledge allows ) about your
condition , so that you have realistic expectations; andcan select a treatment option which will work best
for you; so you have peace of mind you did your best.
Manju u r my advocate as u r knowledgeable....caring...empathetic and a very good human being. God bless u with all the happiness.
ReplyDeleteAnu.
Manju, I admire you for being so thoughtful and caring towards others even though you have been through so much. I'm sure many people will benefit from your blog.
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