This query which I got from
one of my blog reader is very honest. Many will hesitate to ask these questions
but she was so good in putting her doubts in words.
Question :
I am a regular visitor of your
blog and found very useful information. We are facing fertility problem
since long. We are living in Delhi and belong to a medium family. Two failed
IVF(ICSI) cycles in Delhi. Reason for IVF failure was poor embryo
quality. They were little fragmented. So doctor suspected my egg quality
is poor. I am taking Coq 10 now and planning for next round in November. We are
planning for Dr Malpani guaranteed Success program, although it cost too much ,
which is bothering us. To manage such a large fund is really very difficult for
us, but we will try to do. As we became so much frustrated with this issue and
want to give our best and final. Here I need your opinion as an elder
sister, i am 32 now. I have read about doctor Malpani and one of my friend told
me that he is too commercial, but whenever I saw your blog I was convinced you would tell
me the truth.
Now my decision depends on
your reply , so please try to answer my queries-
1. Does Dr Malpani pay
attention to all his patient or only to some specific VIP patients like you who is a
blog writer((Please do not get angry))
2. My husband has motility issue,
does it make our case weak ?
3. Does IVF protocol make any
difference in embryo quality.
4. Is it safe to fly after
embryo Transfer.
5. Is it ok to do follow up
with other doctors after positive pregnancy test.
6. Why did you choose Dr
Malpani over others ?
7. Is doctor Malpani
commercial ?
8. Do they handle each case on
their own or handover to associates ?
How can I contact you by
phone.
I am waiting for your reply.
Answer :
Nice to hear from you. I appreciate your questions :) and I am not a bit
angry ! I am sorry that two of your attempts failed - Is your husband's sperm
motility issue the reason for IVF ? Can you please send me the photos of
embryos transferred to you ? This will give me a better idea about their quality.
You should remember quality of an embryo also depends on the competency of the
embryology lab. Can you send me the complete details of your IVF cycle in Delhi
? What is your AMH value ? Dosage of meds used ? How many eggs retrieved, how
many fertilized and how many transferred ?
1. Does Dr Malpani pay attention to all his patient or only to some specific VIP patients like you who is a blog writer
He treats all
his patients the same, including me ! I had a chance to see him and talk with
him less than 10 mins this time. I had nothing much to ask and my FET is quite
straight forward. He gives the same treatment to all his patients and treats everyone as a VIP. Dr. Anjali does the
egg collection and scan, the embryologist , Dr Sai, does all the fertilization
work and loads the embryo into the catheter and Dr. Malpani does the
consultation and ET.
2. My husband has motility issue, does it make our case week.
No, definitely not ! ICSI will give you the best
chance for success.
3. Does protocol make any difference in embryo quality?
I think so, because better eggs will give rise to
better embryos.
4. Is it safe to fly after embryo transfer?
I did fly after my ET :)
5. Is it ok to do follow up with other doctors after positive preg test.
Sure, you have to !
6. Why did you choose Dr Malpani over others.
1. I am comfortable with his conservative approach (He
doesn't order unnecessary tests and therapies)
2. He is very
knowledgeable (He knows what he does!)
3. It is very easy to contact him (available 24/7 via
e-mail)
4. He is not over optimistic nor does he promise the
moon; he doesn't think he is God or the final authority on IVF. He clearly
understands that only certain things are in his hand and does that part of the
work well good. They are very transparent in what they do, from embryo photos
to medical bills everything is open and documented !
5. The clinic is so compact there is no need to run
around. I felt very comfortable.
6. I believed in him - this is my intuition! When you
select a doctor you can't know 100% about their honesty or competency. Our
intuitions play a major role. I like his honest writings and I believed him
whole-heartedly. The vibes we create around us (the way think about a person)
play a very important role about how the opposite person reacts with us :) I
went with good vibes. I didn't look at Dr Malpani with suspicion. Once I
selected them I believed them :)
7. Is doctor Malpani commercial ?
Every
doctor needs money to survive-aren't they humans? What do you mean by commercial?
His clinic is in a costly area and he has staff to feed. They charge a bit more
than others but it is all worth at the end because of the service they provide.
They don't charge anything extra.
8. Do they handle each case on their own or handover to associates ?
No, Dr. Malpani and Dr. Anjali handle everything
themselves. They do not have any assistants.
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