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I am sure Rajender will not be
so happy to read the title :) Anyhow, let me keep this one, it sounds
interesting. On the day of egg retrieval I was so happy for no reason. I was
not even a bit worried, might be all the good hormones were at play! I went to
the clinic, the nurses started to prepare me for the retrieval. In Malpani
clinic they have a gown; you need to wear it when you go for egg retrieval and
during embryo transfer. I have gone there four times and not even a single time
I tied the gown correctly. Rajender couldn’t succeed too in helping me! If
someone of you who go to Malpani clinic, wear that gown and tie it properly, I would
easily agree that you are one of the intelligent person in this universe, a
genius :) This time I and Rajender wanted to do our best to tie it correctly.
We tied it; Rajender did it actually and gave me a very proud smile. I looked
at him with great admiration until sister Lizzy came, looked at me, removed the
knots and retied it properly :) When sister Lizzy entered the room she told
Rajender that Dr. Sai was looking for him. So he left the room. I was wondering
what for Dr. Sai called! Usually the sperm collection cup is brought to the
room where we are. During our first IVF, in Malpani Infertility Clinic, a nurse
came with a big cardboard box into the room where I and Rajender were. I was
wondering what it was! She looked at us both, smiled coyly and kept that box in
the table, left quickly with a much shyer body language. I was amused by her
behavior and when we opened the box there was a sperm collection cup. I still
remember that smile and I guess she was new there at that time. Her shy, naughty smile did make that room very romantic ;)
After Rajender left, Sister Lizzy
gave me enema (how much I hate that!) and I was lying down. Few minutes later
Rajender entered the room and looked at me as if he would burn me to ashes. I
asked him what happened. He burst out – ‘what do you think of yourself? Is it
very important to see the sperms?’ I was totally clueless for a moment and then
I understood what happened. Actually, I was the one who mailed Dr that I would
love to watch the sperms live under the microscope. He must have told Dr.Sai. Sister
Lizzy instead of sending me, sent Rajender. I was excited. I asked Rajender
whether he saw the sperms. He said with a very rough look, ‘no, I didn’t’. I
asked, ‘why?’ He said, Dr. Sai asked me whether I wanted to have a look but I said no.
That appeared very ridiculous to me. They were kind enough to let him into the
embryology lab inspite of their busy schedule; they were ready to show him the
sperms and why should someone be angry for that! Rajender continued to talk,
actually he spitted out. He said, I went to Dr. Sai and he asked me whether I
want to see the sperms. I said no and came out. Shonali came and she asked the
same question to me. Everyone sitting there was watching me (the patients probably!). When I was about
to come out, another Sister came and she asked me the same question. I felt very
embarrassed, and it is all because of you. This blaming got me too irritated. Instead of
seeing the sperms, what for he is coming and shouting at me! I couldn’t really
understand at that moment about how he felt, and the reason for his anger, but now I could. He was
already too tensed about the sperm giving part. He prepared himself for that five
minute job for days (abstinence, healthy food). When Dr. Sai called, he must
have gone thinking that he must give sperms and all the little drama that
happened there made him very irritated; especially, he couldn’t tolerate the
fact that everyone was watching him when he was being asked whether he wanted to see
the sperms. Whenever I think of this incident I smile, a happy memory! I dare
not talk to him about that incident after that.
When this fight was going on between
us, Dr entered the room. I had no clue that he would come. He smiled and asked ‘are
you ready to give lots of eggs’. I said, ‘I hope so’. Before I could start the next conversation, he wished us good luck
and he was gone. Dr. Malpani talks so fast, and if there is a Guiness record
challenge about who speaks the maximum words per minute, I am sure he will
easily win! :) I needed some time to talk
to him, I had some questions in mind and more importantly I had something with
me to show to him. He just came like a lightening and left. All I could think
thereafter was, 'I need to talk to him!'
After sometime, they called me
for egg retrieval. I went, and there stood the anesthesiologist. He asked me
whether I was afraid and I replied very happily that I love anesthesia and I am
not a bit afraid. He again asked whether I am nervous about injections. I said, ‘I
have gone through 7 IVFs (as if it was the most proud happening in my life!), I
am not afraid of needles’. I saw Dr. Anjali sitting there. As soon as the
needle entered my vein I lost consciousness. Someone woke me up, don't know after how long! I felt I am
being disturbed from the most happy, peaceful sleep. I said, ‘I had beautiful
dreams’. The next question I heard was, 'do you remember them’. I said, ‘no’. Then
I asked them, 'please give me more anesthesia, I want to sleep' :) I wish death is similar
to going under anesthesia - a long, deep, peaceful sleep. If it is so, I am sure death will
be an amazing experience! Then I remember someone asking, most probably Dr.
Anjali - 'do you know how many eggs you got?' I kept quiet. Dr. Anjali said 19
eggs. I couldn’t open my eyes but I thanked her and said, ‘ma’m you have the luckiest pair of hands’. Then I said, ‘I want to talk to Dr’. Someone asked me which Dr. I was
angry, I thought very hard (it was very difficult to use my brain!) and said ‘big Dr’:) I could feel that I was back to
my bed, heard Rajender’s voice, said to him that they retrieved 19 eggs and again repeated ‘I want to
talk to Dr’, I dozed off. I heard Dr. Anjali’s voice, Rajender’s voice
and then after one or two hours I woke up. I could see my husband’s face
eagerly looking at me. Obviously it must have been boring and he was waiting
for me to get up so that we can go to our hotel room. Happiness is waking up from anesthesia to see the love of your life waiting anxiously for you! I smiled at him and said, ‘I
am very hungry’.
After getting dressed up, I said
to Rajender, ‘just wait for a moment; I will be back in few minutes’. I told Sister
Mary that I want to see Dr. Sai. I was still in half-sleeping mode. I held my forehead with my hands and sat in the waiting room until Dr. Sai came out. I asked
him, ‘can I see the sperms?’ He said, ‘wait a moment’, he went inside the lab
and called me after some time. He asked, ‘do you want to see your husband’s
sperm?’ I said any sperm sample would be fine. He took a sample from Rajender’s
sperm, mounted them on a slide and showed those little swimmers. I was so happy
to see them live. They are like tadpoles and were moving constantly, at least
most of them were. I thought, if Rajender could see this too it would be
wonderful, but, I had no guts to start the sperm topic again to him :) I looked
around the embryology lab; Dr. Sai must have been busy working there. In the music system, which he had in that room, devotional songs about Sai Baba was oozing out making
that place much more peaceful and desirable. I did feel comfortable that Dr. Sai will be
handling our eggs and sperms and creating our embryos. He actually does the
most important job, the job of Lord Brahma – the creator!
Yes, I got 19 eggs. I learned
soon after that, 14 out of 19 eggs were mature. I and Rajender were happy. We have crossed one
hurdle successfully! Will I get enough embryos on day 5 so that we could do
ateast 2-3 transfers to Rita; this was the nagging question in my mind! I thought, I will be very happy to transfer my embies to Rita. We met her during one of
our follicle growth scan and we liked her instantly. More on that soon!
